The solution is there...
Well I yield to your superior knowledge and experience. Is the future you're envisioning devoid of freeways and rail too? A world where a homogeneous population is spread out across the face of the land, with everyone living a stationary life in their own cubical?
I think Robert Heinlein described such a world in a scifi novel about 60 years ago. But I don't think I'd like it. As an orienteer, surely you can understand peoples' deep-seated desire to travel, just to be challenged and see new things. It's not all practical either; there's a psychological component of "going to work" too. And to satisfy this need for our increasing population, we need large transportation infrastructures.
Light rail has come a long way in the past 30 years. Just ride the Chicago el after a trip on the MetroLink. Cold, slow, drafty, noisy, unsafe... It needs a complete replacement more than Highway 40 or any other interstate. But ridership is still shooting upward, because of the inherent convenience it provides over the automobile, and other factors described in this recent
Atlantic Monthly article. If rail is to die "long term" how do you explain this thinking?
Is the increased ridership you and I both observed merely a spike, before we all assume positions in Heinlein's world?