So a guy was taking photos at Northfield yesterday and they included the following shots of yours truly.
I looked at the first one, and my immediate reaction is, Wow, I look really old. Now, since I am rather old, and possibly even really old, maybe that is the expected reaction, but somehow after a lot of work and a lot of sweating and not doing too too bad, to then look and see how bad you really look is, well, unsettling.
Though, as I have finally come to realize, there aren't a whole lot of folks out there who are entirely happy with their self-image. And I am certainly less unhappy than I used to be.
And, anyway, reason to hope, there was a second photo....
Great, now I still look really old, plus both legs seem to be attached to the rest of me at rather strange angles.
So I raised the subject, the first one, the looking really old -- I don't think I'm up for having my legs reattached -- at dinner, out to eat to celebrate our anniversary a few days late. Should I dispense with the beard?
Gail is sure I would look younger, though unsure of exactly what the new look would be, since I haven't shaved for 38 years. And she's not sure I would want to start shaving again now. She did say that my dad would have gladly dispensed with shaving, except that his beard would have been white and made him look older, and he didn't want that.
So we ruminated on that for a bit, and then on the equally drastic steps that she could take, dying and/or cutting her hair.
Who knows where this will go. But if someone comes up to you and sounds familiar but looks somewhat odd, well, you have been warned.