No training but I hit my max heart rate when I realized that nearly all the other women had interpreted today's wedding invitation differently.
Instructions were: "Please dress casually and wear comfortable shoes." The invitation referenced 1.3 km of walking to/from the outdoor wedding site, an afternoon of lawn games, dinner, dancing and an evening campfire. Ladies, before you read further, what would you have worn? Changing during the day would mean changing in your car so you would probably stick with one outfit.
The correct answer is: a dress about 80-100% as fancy as you would wear to a regular wedding, with nice jewellery and low-heeled sandals you can kick off for the lawn games. Oops! I wore dressy capris and short-sleeved shirt, thinking I might be overdressed for the lawn games. Um, nope. I wasn't entirely alone in my choice but I was definitely on the un-dressy end of the continuum and felt a little stressed about it when we first arrived. Too bad, I love dressing up!
When the bride came up the aisle, she really made me smile and my stress melted away. Partly that's because C and C are such a happy, well-matched couple and their entire wedding day was wonderful. We've known her since before she was born.
But also, I felt way, WAY more relaxed after seeing the bride's awesome wedding shoes. :) It was a great reminder that she isn't the type of person to care if her guests were dressed differently from one another. Fun celebration!